births out of marriage

In this article they give the reason that women got married because they were with child and so they could keep their respect up. i don't agree that a women should get married for a reason such as keeping your respect up. i believe that a women should only get married when they find that special someone that could spend the rest of their life. marriage is more than staying together because of a baby, it is committed and dedication. if you don't have that then you shouldn't get married. i think that less people are marrying before they have kids because there became thing such as birth control and condoms.
           I don't think that it is a good think that more and more women are getting pregnant outside of marriage, but Im not against it either. women now have a choice to get married if they have kid. they are no longer pressure nor expected to get married if they feel its not right. When I was born my mom and dad were not married but yet at least she had a choice. They may not be together now but at least they loved each other then and that's all that matters. Besides my mom was over the age the of 30 and was old enough to make decisions that she proud enough to live with. She didn't have to get married to maintain a reputation or anything like that because she proud of what she did.